And one of my best friends came over to me and said, Timany just said she doesn't want to be your friend because you're black."
我的一个好朋友过来对我说，“蒂玛尼刚才说她不想和你做朋友，因为你是黑人。”
That made me get mad and go and walk outof class sometimes. I would just, I would justgo out of school and stuff.
这让我很生气，有时一气之下走出教室，离开学校和老师。
So, this is the behavior I was talking about.
这就是我所说的行为。
She would get punished for leaving class,when class was an environment where kids were calling her out for the color of her skin.
她会因为逃课而受到惩罚，她当时处于这样一种课堂环境,孩子们会因为她的肤色让她出去。
Yeah, Carter's already internalized that and said, "I don't want to be black."
是的，卡特已经内化这些认识，他说，“我不想是黑人。”
And that's a horrible thing to hear your son say, that he doesn't want to be who he is, you know?
听到你儿子说他不想是现在的自己，你知道吗?
By the end of kindergarten, they wanted to qualify him for social-emotional for а special Ed, also.
幼儿园结束的时候，他们想让他有资格获得社会情感方面的特殊教育。
I went right to the special Ed department and said, I want these taken off.
我直接去了特殊教育部门，说:“ 我要取消这些特殊教育。”
Because this is literally the school-to-prison pipeline, where we' re talking about, how can you list these descriptors of 'violent' for a six-year- old boy?
因为这确实是一条从学校通往监狱的路， 我们一直在这里谈论着，怎么能对一个六岁男孩列出种种“暴力”描述呢?
The thing that's striking is that with many, a large minority, and even a majority of adopted children often have behavioral issues in the classroom,and they have some difficulty getting along with other children at a higher rate than biological children do.
令人吃惊的是，很多甚至大多数领养孩子在课堂上都有行为问题，他们与其他孩子相处困难的比率高于亲生孩子。
And that was consistent finding that we had in our research studies.
这是我们在研究的一致发现。
Generally speaking, black children do have somewhat higher rate of problems within the adoptive population as well as in the biological population.
一般来说， 在收养儿童和亲生儿童中，黑人儿童问题发生率确实更高。
That does show up.
事实的确如此。
There's so many layers of, if you look at the curriculum, it's mostly white.
有很多层次，看-下课程， 你会发现大部分课程针对白人小孩。
If you look at books, they re mostly white. And all of these things just disenfranchise our kids of color year after year after year.
大部分书也针对白人小孩。所有这些都年复一年地剥夺了我们的有色人种孩子的权利。
And now, having adopted black kids and having to pretty much fight for them so much to get them what they need in school has changed my lens completely.
现在，我领养了黑人小孩，为了让他们在学校得到所需之物，我必须为他们而奋斗，这个奋斗过程完全改变了我的认识。
If you're growing up in a home that doesn't have a college-educated black person and you're able to see one at school who's your teacher that might signal to you that hey, I can do this too.
如果你在一个没有受过大学教育的黑人家庭中长大，而在学校里看到一个黑人是你的老师，这可能会向你发出一个信号，嘿， 我也可以这样做。
I actually have another study that shows that having a same race teacher for black students decreases rates of discipline actions.
实际上，我的另一项研究还表明，如果有同一种族的老师，黑人学生违反纪律比率会降低。
And so, you're less likely to get suspended or expelled if you have a black teacher and so that might be related to how teachers think about misbehavior.
所以，如果你有一个黑人老师，你就不太可能被停课或开除，这可能与老师对不当行为的看法有关。
So, if you have a white teacher who isn't trained in cultural competency and how to work with diverse students, it might be harmful for student.
所以，如果你有一个白人老师，他/她既没有接受过文化能力方面的培训，也没有学会如何与不同学生打交道，这对学生来说可能有害无益。
I think everything that's happened to me at this school happened to me because I was black.
我认为，在这所学校发生在我身上的一切都仅因为我是黑人。
A lot of people at this school had it out for me from the beginning.
这所学校的许多人从一开始就对我有敌意。
My principal was giving me a detention or something I didn't deserve.
校长给了我留校察看或者其他我不应该得到的惩罚。
That made me angry. I did punch a wall and I did break the bone in my hand.
这让我很生气。我确实撞墙了,也确实弄断了手上的骨头。
He has been, from kindergarten through, the only Afro-American male in his entire class,all the way through.
从幼儿园到现在，他一直是全班唯一的男性非裔美国人。
I believe that race was an issue for Zach when he was young, when he was a little boy.
我认为，当他还是个小男孩的时候，种族对于扎克就是个问题。
I think that it was especially difficult for him going to school and not having anyone that looked like him that he could reach out to.
我认为，去学校读书，却不能结交和他一样的黑人朋友,对他来说特别困难。
Probably the worst incident we had was with the football team.
也许最糟糕的是在足球队。
He was the only black kid on the football team, the only one.
他是足球队里唯一的黑人小孩， 唯一个。
He posted a picture of Zach going into the locker room after practice, completely drenched.
他贴出了一张照片， 照片里扎克训练完走进更衣室，全身湿透。
And it had been а hot day and after practice you know they re all pretty sweaty and it was a photo of him, and underneath it, it said this is Zach after a long day of picking cotton.
那天很热，训练结束后大家都汗流浃背，这是他的照片，照片下面写着，这就是扎克采了-整天棉花后的样子。
I think it affected me a little bit for a while,and then I think I just kind of got used to it.
我觉得它影响了我-段时间，后来我就习惯了。
The lessons I've learned as being a white mom and having black kids, how much institutionalized racism is in our school structure is absolutely phenomenal.
作为一个有黑人小孩的白人母亲，我得到的教训是，在学校结构中，种族主义制度化的程度绝对令人吃惊。
And I never had to realize that before I had black kids and, yet, this has been the truth for all black families as far back as we can remember, but because I'm white, I never had to, I never had to look at that.
有黑人孩子之前，我从来没有意识到这一点，这是我们所能记得的所有黑人家庭的事实，但是因为我是白人，我从来...我从来没有认识到这一点。
